然而,如果只用在一起的時間長短、還有在這段關係當中快不快樂等等,可能沒有辦法很好的去評估這段關係到底發展的狀況如何,可能需要更多不同的指標。通常我們會用更細緻的方式來測量,大家所熟悉「親密、激情、承諾」(愛情三元論,triangle theory of love)是一個典型的測量方法[3],但今天想要跟大家介紹另外一個也相當有意思的測量,這是感情當中的四個向度(four dimensions of love)。
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[3]Sternberg, R. J. (1986). A triangular theory of love. Psychological review, 93(2), 119.
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